
INTRODUCING KALSOM TAIB
The Shafee Yahya Story
Datin Kalsom Taib dan Dato’ Shafee Yahya
Rakan Taulan Saya – Lama dan Baru
Tuan2 dan Puan2 Yang Saya Hormati Sekelian
SALAM SEJAHTERA PADA PETANG YANG MULIA INI, YANG SUNGGUH BERMAKNA KERANA KITA AKAN MENYAKSIKAN PELANCARAN BUKU YANG DITULIS OLEH SEORANG ISTERI BAGI MENGIMBAS LIKU HIDUP SUAMINYA!
PADA SAYA, TIDAK ADA SESUATU YANG LEBIH MULIA DARIPADA KASIH SAYANG, KESETIAAN DAN JASA YANG DIHULURKAN KEPADA IBU BAPA, SUAMI ISTERI SERTA ANAK CUCU YANG BERKONGSI HIDUP DENGAN KITA.
WHEN KALSOM ASKED IF I WOULD INTRODUCE HER AS THE AUTHOR OF THE BOOK DEDICATED TO HER BELOVED SHAFEE, I DID NOT HESITATE AT ALL. I CONSIDER IT AN HONOUR TO SPEAK ABOUT KALSOM – A DAUGHTER, WIFE, MOTHER AND GRANDMOTHER WHO HAS DONE HER FAMILY PROUD IN DOCUMENTING THEIR LEGACY.
THE SHAFEE YAHYA STORY IS KALSOM’S THIRD BIOGRAPHY IN 3 YEARS – AFTER TAIB ANDAK: IN A CLASS OF HIS OWN PUBLISHED IN DECEMBER 2008, AND ZAINAB AHMAD: A TRULY REMARKABLE WOMAN PUBLISHED SIX MONTHS LATER IN MAY 2009.
IF THIS IS NOT PROLIFIC WRITING WHAT IS? HOW DO YOU DO IT KALSOM? YOU ARE DEFINITELY NOT THE ACCIDENTAL WRITER YOU CLAIM TO BE!
OF ALL THE LITERARY GENRES, THE BIOGRAPHY IS PERHAPS THE MOST EXHAUSTIVE – AND EXHAUSTING AS KALSOM’S EFFORTS SHOW. THE AMOUNT OF RESEARCH THAT HAS GONE INTO THE BOOKS ON HER FATHER, MOTHER AND NOW HUSBAND IS TREMENDOUS. MINUTE DETAILS ABOUT PEOPLE, PLACES AND EVENTS HAVE BEEN DOGGEDLY UNCOVERED AND DESCRIBED IN ORDER OF CHRONOLOGY OR SIGNIFICANCE.
ALL THIS REQUIRES A DISCIPLINE AND A DILIGENCE PLUS THE WRITING SKILLS WHICH CAN BE NURTURED ONLY IF YOU TRULY BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND YOUR SUBJECT MATTER; ONLY IF YOU ARE CONVINCED THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO WILL FIND YOUR WORK INTERESTING OR IMPORTANT ENOUGH TO READ.
FROM MY EXPERIENCE, WRITING A BOOK ESPECIALLY ONE WITH A HISTORICAL PERSPECTIVE IS NOT AS EASY AS WRITING LETTERS TO THE EDITOR OR A COLUMN IN THE NEWSPAPER. MY CO-WRITER ZAINAB ABDUL MAJID WILL VOUCH FOR THE ENDLESS READING WE HAD TO DO AND REFERENCES WE HAD TO MAKE IN THE TWO YEARS OF RESEARCH; AND THE TEDIOUS ORGANISATION OF MATERIALS, CHECKING AND RECHECKING OF FACTS AND DATA, THE WRITING AND REWRITING, EDITING AND PROOFREADING IN THE LAST SIX MONTHS OF THE PROJECT. ALHAMDULILLAH OUR BOOK IMAGES OF THE JAWI PERANAKAN OF PENANG WAS PUBLISHED IN 2004 – A LABOUR OF LOVE FROM ZAINAB, A TRUE-BLUE MAMI PULAU PINANG AND ME, AN AFFILIATE MAMI BY VIRTUE OF BEING MARRIED TO ZAIN.
BUT I’M SURE KALSOM WILL AGREE THAT THE TASK OF DOCUMENTING SHAFEE’S LIFE AND TIMES IS MORE THAN JUST A LABOUR OF LOVE. IT IS CERTAINLY NO LOVE’S LABOUR LOST. IT WAS A LABORIOUS JOURNEY BUT ONE THAT IS WORTH EVERY EFFORT YA KALSOM! FOR A WRITER THERE’S NOTHING MORE FULFILLING THAN SEEING YOUR LINGUISTIC OUTPOURINGS PUBLISHED FOR POSTERITY.
HOWEVER – A WORD OF WARNING TO SHAFEE AND ALL YOU GUYS OUT THERE! A WIFE DOESN’T WRITE A BOOK ON HER HUSBAND OUT OF SHEER DEVOTION LET ME ASSURE YOU. THERE IS AN UNDERLYING EXPECTATION – OF APPRECIATION IF NOT GRATITUDE, OF ACKNOWLEDGEMENT IF NOT RECIPROCITY! SO SHAFEE, GET CRACKING! SHARPEN YOUR WORDPROCESSING SKILLS TO WRITE THAT ONE AMAZING BOOK OR ENDURING POEM ON KALSOM SIMPLY ENTITLED MY LOVE, MY LIFE.
I’VE KNOWN KALSOM A LONG TIME – SINCE THE 70S WHEN I WAS A RELUCTANT SCHOOL TEACHER AND SHE, A FORMIDABLE CORPORATE EXECUTIVE. I MUST ADMIT THAT AS THE WIFE OF A SHELL MAN WHOSE MAIN ROLE WAS TO BE DEMURE AT COMPANY COCKTAILS, I WAS IN AWE OF KALSOM’S FORAY INTO THE GIANT MULTINATIONAL, AND LATER THE EASE WITH WHICH SHE MOVED TO MMC AND THEN NESTLE. IN THIS SHE WAS A PIONEER AND A TOWERING MALAY WOMAN!
POST- RETIREMENT, KALSOM ONCE AGAIN SHOWS THAT SHE IS A WOMAN OF SUBSTANCE AND TRUE GRIT AS SHE MAKES HER MARK IN THE PUBLISHING WORLD. IT’S EASY ENOUGH TO SLIP INTO ONE’S COMFORT ZONE ON RETIREMENT BUT KALSOM HAS CHOSEN TO CHALLENGE HERSELF IN A NEW AREA – AS AN AUTHOR IN HER OWN RIGHT.
I’M RATHER EMBARRASSED TO ADMIT THAT I HAD ACTUALLY GIVEN KALSOM TIPS ON HOW TO APPROACH HER FATHER’S BIOGRAPHY IN 2008 AS I WAS THEN READY WITH THE RESEARCH AND CHAPTERS OUTLINE OF MY OWN WRITING PROJECT. NOW 3 YEARS ON – AFTER AN ENTHUSIASTIC SPURT OF MEETINGS AND INTERVIEWS I’VE KIND OF REGRESSED. I’M STILL MULLING OVER WHAT PERSPECTIVE I SHOULD TAKE. I STILL WORRY ABOUT BEING TOO BIASED IN INTERPRETING MY FATHER’S LIFE AND TIMES. TUN AHMAD SARJI, TAN SRI ABDULLAH, DATO’ ABDULLAH, DATO’ ZAINAL – PERHAPS THIS IS JUST MY EXCUSE.
ON PAGE 330 KALSOM ADMITS “ I SEE SHAFEE WITH BIASED EYES, HAVING BEEN MARRIED TO HIM FOR 43 YEARS”. INDEED, MEMOIRS AND BIOGRAPHIES ARE SUBJECTIVE WRITINGS WHICH REPRESENT THE WRITER’S INTERPRETATION OF AND PERSPECTIVE ON THE PROTAGONIST’S PERSONALITY AND CHARACTER, EXPERIENCES, THOUGHTS AND CONVICTIONS. NO TWO WRITERS WILL APPROACH THE SAME SUBJECT IN THE SAME WAY. FOR ONE, THEIR LANGUAGE USE WILL BE DIFFERENT. I’M REMINDED OF A THEORY I STUDIED IN THE 80S – THE THEORY OF RELEVANCE WHICH SAYS THAT THE HUMAN MIND IS SELECTIVE IN INTERPRETING THE MYRIAD INFORMATION IT HAS ACCESS TO. IT TENDS TO FOREGROUND AND PROCESS INFORMATION THAT IS MOST RELEVANT TO IT.
DATO’ SHAFEE’S LIFE AND TIMES HAVE BEEN COMPREHENSIVELY COLLATED INCLUDING THE VIEWS AND OPINIONS OF FAMILY, FRIENDS AND COLLEAGUES WHO KNEW/ KNOW HIM WELL. THEY ARE FAITHFULLY PRESENTED BY DATIN KALSOM WHO WRITES AS SHE SPEAKS – CLEARLY AND DIRECTLY WITHOUT AFFECTATION. IT WILL BE INTERESTING TO GET THE REACTION OF HER READERS AND REVIEWERS ESPECIALLY ON THE 4 “HOT” CHAPTERS 10-14. WE WON’T BE SURPRISED KALSOM AND SHAFEE IF THERE IS INDEED A FORMAL REBUTTAL!
FINALLY, IT IS GRATIFYING TO SEE APT QUOTATIONS, MALAY PANTUN AND VERSES FROM THE QURAN PRECEDING EACH CHAPTER AND INTERSPERSED IN BETWEEN THE SECTIONS.
THEY SERVE TO REMIND US THAT IN THE END IT IS ALLAH’S TRUTH THAT PREVAILS AS WE PUNY HUMANS GRAPPLE WITH AND STRIVE TO INTEPRET THE “HALF-TRUTHS, HALF-LIES AND WHITE LIES” THAT SURROUND OUR LIVES. THEY REMIND US THAT MAN’S HOPES AND DREAMS ARE BUT INTERPRETATIONS OF GOD’S GREATER VISION.
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